Loneliness

I should follow-up my last post with one on the loneliness that is often present in this life. When you find yourself surrounded by those who are so consumed with themselves that they also consume you, it can be heartbreaking.

I'm not talking about the sadness that comes with the disappointment when you realize you thought someone cared more than they actually did. I'm referring to the realization that there may be only 1 or 2 persons (if that) who care for your heart. I'm referring to human persons here and not to the Almighty.

This can be sad because humans are frail beings and prone to die on occasion. As we age, those few persons that cared for our heart can leave this life. Additionally, circumstances change. We relocate or are called away to reside at great distances from those who are dear to us. These things and other things can bring about circumstances that find us bereft of any immediate contact with heart friends.

It's a sad thing to find ourselves as the window dressing of someone else's life. We provide a framework for their adventures and respond to their requirements, but there is none to care for us. Forget the silly simpering pitty partiers. That's just a waste of good breath and precious time.

But . . . do NOT forget that you are God's precious creation. You ARE here for HIS divine purpose. You are valuable to HIM, though no one else has taken the time to know your favorite color, song, or activities. Do not place value upon yourself based upon the ability of those around you to recognize that value. Rather, look to the One who made you and died for you. Unworthy though you are, you mattered enough for Him to woo you and draw you unto Himself.

So, it's okay to be sad for the loss and long for someone that wants to know your thoughts, preferences and perception.